WHAT MAKES ME HAPPY?

Happiness is like a butterfly.

The more you chase it, the more it will elude you

But if you turn your attention to other things,

it comes and softly sits on your shoulder

- L. Richard Lessor


 

Imagine that your life may be thought of as analogous to a shuttle launch. You are given a free ticket (birth) with a destination unknown (death) with a limited time (life.) At some destination the shuttle lands, and as the ride ends, various questions come to mind.

"Did you enjoy your trip?" Did you do everything that you wanted to do?" "Were you totally satisfied with the trip?" If you listened to other passengers, you may have done what they wanted to do. In short: you would have taken their journey. Whose journey are you on?

1) "What makes me happy? What activities, what possessions, what daily actions-however small- fill me with delight, make me feel energized and optimistic? What actions make me feel as if I count in my own eyes?"

2) "What memories fill me with joy? What important goals have I always wanted to achieve, but which I haven't made time for? What have I done in the past to bring myself optimism, good feelings, or positive reactions?"

3) "Which of my traits  or characteristics, when expressed make me glad to be me? What kind of person am I at my best? "

4." What "top" five values do I strive to live by and/or do I admire in others?" [1]

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     1. Marsha Sinetar, Do What You Love, The Money Will Follow, New York: Bantam Doubleday Dell Publishing Group, Inc.,1987, pp.77-78

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