An arrow that directs from my figure to another figure is represented as a positive tele line. The arrow that directs away from my figure, or object, is represented as a negative tele line. A congruent tele line is one that connects to both figures and is thought of as mutually reciprocated. An incongruent tele line is one that connects to a figure but is not reciprocally connected.  For example, notice that the arrows that connect from my figure to my sister Donita and to the farm are represented as incongruent tele lines.  All other arrows are represented as congruent tele lines. The distance of the arrows from my figure to others is always longer. This represents, that from my perception, my need was greater to connect to the other persons than their needs were to connect to me.